7 ways to Distress Jeans 

at home

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Gather your distressing tools like sandpaper, scissors and pumice stone

Use a Sandpaper or Steel Wool: Rub on edges to create  abrasions.  

Use Cheese grater  on areas you want to lighten or fray.

Apply BLEACH for a faded or splattered effect.

Use a dremel tool for precise abrasions and detailed distressing.

Use Pumice stones for distressing.

 Use Tweezers to pluck threads for a frayed effect, especially after cutting holes.