Updated on July 30, 2022 by Sarina

embroidered handkerchief

In our house, a handkerchief is a staple when we go out, whatever dress we choose to wear. Absentminded that I am, I almost always forget about the kerchief or the hanky as it is called. It is when you do not have a kerchief in your hand that you really need one (I know from sad sad experience in the theater watching a sob story). 

Though I do not have a penchant for carrying around kerchiefs, I love making them. The easiest and the cutest of all sewing projects. Who wouldn’t.

These embroidered kerchiefs also make the best of gifts. You can personalize them with a monogram or a logo relevant to the person you are gifting it to. A person’s initials embroidered on the kerchief will be very much valued. I absolutely love the appreciation I get when I present these little hankies.

Wedding handkerchiefs – Handkerchiefs are super special for weddings. The bride and the guests need their handkerchiefs to catch their happy tears.There are brides who gift monogrammed hankies to all the guests in anticipation of their using it. Handkerchief wedding invites are also popular (Those may be printed though)

How to make a Handkerchief

Dimensions of the Kerchief – For a man, I would make  a 12 inch square fabric though up to 18 inch square handkerchiefs are also done . For a girl, any square piece of fabric above 8 inch would do ( I have seen tiny 5 inch hankies, though I thought they are too small)

Fabric for the Kerchief – If you have a linen cloth in white or cream that would be perfect to make your hanky. You get handkerchief weight linen in fabric stores. Muslin also would do. Cotton batiste fabric is also good to make a handkerchief. Satin handkerchiefs are adorable but for practical purposes cotton is the way to go. For a wedding kerchief, have a go at satin though. 

Printed cloths are also great. When getting your fabric from old clothes those prints also bring nostalgic memories. Printed clothes are not so much ideal for embroidering unless they have vacant spaces you can embroider on; then they are perfect. Of course then there are the ready made handkerchiefs – quick and easy to embroider on

Cutting your handkerchief. 

CUT 1/2″ EXTRA for whatever size you are making. If you are making a 12 inch kerchief cut a square of 12 1/2 inch. That is if you are having a roll edge finish. If you are turning under and making a straight stitch on the edges you will need to add 1″ extra for all sides so for a 12 inch square you will need to cut 14 inch square. 

Whatever cloth I am using I always make it a point to prewash the fabric. 

Square up the fabric :  A good way to square up the cloth you have is to draw a thread from the sides , especially for large weave fabric like linen.

To do this cut the square a little larger say 2 inches larger all around. Pick out a thread from the side of one corner near where you have marked for the kerchief and pull it out completely.

My tweezers do double duty here. This is your cutting line.If you are using a large weave  cloth you can do this quite easily.Do this for all four sides.( Checkout this tutorial for a cute drawn thread hem for your kerchief )

I am not recommending ripping the cloth to get the straight line as it can damage the cloth but there are many who do it successfully. Some grains are not straight and you maynot get a good square shape

You can also align a side to the selvage of the fabric, then cut it with the scissors. When you do that you almost always get it square.

If you have a rotary cutter and a mat and a transparent scale you have your job easy. If you are using the scale to mark and cut with the scissors, you need to mark correctly to get a square piece of fabric (which is not skewed in any direction)

Hem the edges 

Hand hem for your kerchief – Checkout the post on 16 ways to make a hand sewn hem for more ideas on finishing the hem of your handkerchief. If you love the simple hand stitched look and think that handmade should be that truly, Hem the edges with a whip stitch or an overcast stitch.

overcast stitch

You will have to roll the fabric edges a scant 1/4 inches to the wrong side and do the stitches with a single strand of thread on the hand needle. Be thorough with the stitching as this hem has to hold several whiffs at the nose as well as numerous tumbles in the wash. Use enough thread to last stitching all around the kerchief, or else you will have many knots around the perimeter of the kerchief – unsightly.

A shell edge is another beautiful finish you could try on the kerchief.Checkout the tutorial to do a shell edge fabric finish. 

Pin stitch hem

pin stitch hem

Another great way to finish the hem of the handkerchief is a pin stitch hem. This can be done easily by using a thick needle on a fine fabric; When the stitches are made with the same colour as the fabric the holes will remain and look wonderful.

Follow the pictures for the steps to make this hem. You come down with the needle from the fold of the turned under hem and take 2-3 threads from the fabric near the fold. Because you are using a thick needle it automatically makes a hole. You have to come back once more to the same place and pull the thread. This will make the hole more pronounced. Now repeat the steps by going back to the fold

Sew a blanket stitch along the hem – finish the corners in the follwoing way,

make your own handkerchief

Sewing machine hem –  Checkout the tutorial on the fabric edge finishes using sewing machine . My absolute favorite is the rolled edge finish.

I have hemmed my kerchief in a candy pink coloured thread with a rolled hem foot on my sewing machine . I have used a zig zag stitch; you can use the straight stitch as well. Check out the correct method to use the rolled hemmer foot

That contraption gives me so much joy – the way it spits out perfect rolls after taking in the frayed ends of the cloth!  Remember to hem with the wrong side up when using this foot. You can also turn under the edge  or apply lace as explained below.

embroidered handkerchief diy

Turned under finish – If you like the machine turn under finish for your handkerchief , it is simple enough. Just turn under 1/4 inch twice in each corner and sew a straight stitch or a zig zag stitch.

embroidered handkerchief

  How to make a mitered corner.

It is great if you can make a neat mitered corner. Just draw a line 1 inch from the fabric edge on all four sides . Fold one corner in so that it is touching the corner of the lines you have drawn inside.

Turn in once more, so that raw edge is hidden. Press in place. Now Turn under the side edges. You will see that the edges meet in the corner perfectly without any bulk

For a better tutorial for this finish checkout the tutorial on making a mitered corner here.  


Embroidered Handkerchiefs

Checkout the post on 9 best ways to transfer embroidery designs on to your handkerchief.

1. Simple Embroidered Handkerchief


For this handkerchief I have used lazy daisy flowers and some straight stitches for the grass.
diy embroidered handkerchief You can make simple bullion roses as detailed in this tutorial or make french knot sprays; Or Blanket stitched flowers . Any simple embroidery would do for a small handkerchief. Draw the design or copy it so that it is atleast 1 inch above the hem. Mark with a pencil or a disappearing ink pen or trace it.

 Thread your sewing needle with 2 strands of embroidery floss and start your work.

kerchief with embroidery stitches

Here are 10 very easy to do flower embroidery designs

flower embroidery designs


Checkout the post on embroidery flowers to find about 20 ways to embellish your handkerchief with floral designs.

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2. Monogrammed Hand kerchief

Embroidered initials of a person’s name is a nice personalized touch on the handkerchief. Write the monogram on to the kerchief directly or copy it from another place (make your monogram using the computer and print it out) Trace it to the kerchief with a tracing paper and carbon sheet. Ensure that it is the proper size for your hanky before tracing.And not wonky like mine (I drew freehand and it shows)

For the small monogram on a handkerchief a stem stitch or an outline stitch works great. A heavy braided chain stitch also is a good idea. A padded satin stitch ( work the stem stitch or back stitch on the letters, then do satin stitch over it ) can be used if you want a raised effect, which I have done in the Kerchief above

Did you know that traditionally monograms on a man’s kerchief was always less than 1inch and on a woman’s kerchief bigger than that.

For more details on embroidering letters or initials checkout the tutorial and for information on Monogram Checkout the post on Monograms for details on How to create monograms and 4 ways to add them to your hankies and placements and simple monogram rules to follow. 

how to make your own monograms

3. Lace edged handkerchief

Checkout the post on the different types of lace trims you can use to edge your kerchiefs

embroidered handkerchief

When adding the lace to the fabric, the only difficult part is the corner. I will explain how I have created a mitered effect.

Start by doing a zig zag stitch on the fabric edges. 

 embroidered handkerchief

Place the lace on top of the zig zagged fabric edge. Pin in place. Start stitching.Start from one side just short of 1/4 inch from that corner. Do not stitch till the next edge. Stop 1/4 inch from the next edge.


Fold the lace backwards from the edge. The fold should be level with the edge. Sew a diagonal stitch ( by hand or by sewing machine) as the picture below.

lace edge handkerchief with embroidery

This will give you a mitered corner. Continue stitching and do this to all corners

4.Crochet edged handkerchief

embroidered handkerchief

If you know crochet, you can do a crochet edge to your handkerchief. You will be attaching the crochet thread ( Use a thin crochet thread) to the handkerchief hem with a crochet hook. If you do not know crochet you can find crochet lace and attach it to the handkerchief edge with buttonhole stitches or by sewing machine. The crochet lace I have is not good but if I find a more delicate and beautiful one I think I will be hooked into this. 


Then there is also the option to do machine embroidery on the handkerchief. Checkout this detailed tutorial to embroider a wedding hanky using an embroidery machine. Get your stack of hankies done fast.

You can add some embroidered borders on your hanky border- check out these posts on embroidery border designs and braid like stitches that make great outlines along your handkerchief border.

braid stitch

The Pinterest board – Embroidered Handkercheifs will give you more inspiration pictures of beautiful embroidery designs and techniques.

embroidered handkerchief sewing


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